Archive for May, 2010

Before marriage to know that he just love ex-girlfriend

Monday, May 31st, 2010
User letter:

He and I areBlind dateKnow, before that he had just ended a period of both their parents are not willing to love Shing Chuen.

After he contacted me and found I like this person or the type, then both of our parents we decided to consent to marriage, and the lightning engaged, though a bit anxious, but I always thought he was feeling before I willing and I are engaged. Engagement and found him hot and cold to me, and get better then good, and sometimes almost all of the Cold War up to coax me, I really tired, but I do not want to end this offFeeling。

Once again the day after the Cold War, through his friend, that is my cousin learned, he said that this feeling in themselves never get out alive, he did not like me, that he had been too hasty, and so decided their ofMarriageEvent.

After listening to my heart empty, the original beginning to end I am nothing, I just got his shell. I cried that day he seemed to be back to find him, and he asked me how, is not he provoke me angry. I was really good mess, I do not know when he asked me not really care about me. It’s something I have been behind her family, and friends onlyTalkI really do not know how later go on the road. Although he was very good to me, but I know his heart is painful. I am in the end how to do?

 Help girls:Mae Sot

  A while ago a few friends to chat, chat to one called “Love incompetent” book. “Love is incompetent,” the word fine.

I hate is this “love impotent” man, he did not love the ability to mold the corner squatting Well, why should provoke the innocent woman? Those women could have a lifetime to find true love their men, be a true love, but they “love incompetence” of the man not only lied to him and he does not love a womanMarry, Then married and a look of frustration, as if by a great grievance. Who wronged him? Live with their grievances the female talent too!

To me, this man orBreak upForget it. He obviously is to you as healing tool, good for you because of your guilt, bad for you because he does not recognize it from the heart of a marriage. You’re not good enough, just in the wrong, he could not fall in love with someone else’s time. Just a man beginning to fall in love with you fail, the future will not love you more, those who wait after the opera where the heroine finally keep the plot to the actor frequent reason, just to meet the arranged marriage of love is not under The poor woman happy fantasy Bale.

Of course, your boyfriend’s remark may be angry words after the fight, men and friends always used to complain that their women and more poor, more than a bad boss, to work more hard, life is not much more boring … … his life really that bad. Wife really that bad earlyDivorceA; work, bad bosses jump ship early, jumped to his early life is boring, and sometimes they simply complain about it to vent negative emotions.

Recommend you a good boyfriend to talk to see if he really does not love you or say angry words. I really do not love to break up, in order not to love your life is not worth it to catch a man, if that gas, then please do not hold a grudge, and happy to be married.   finance-blogs

Love, need birthright

Saturday, May 29th, 2010

“To be honest, I was very moved, who do not want to Soong, married a man she likes ah, but true to the time he was ready to divorce, I found it impossible, he definitely does not fit her son, his wife is a good woman , empathy, and I especially appreciate her, but I really love him, how do you say?Director told me that she metEmotionConfused, and I must talk.

Give her a cup of bubble Tieguanyin, she politely rebuffed: “I had sleepless nights, not tea, thank you!”

Why sleep? Our topic from here:

“I fell in love with a married man, he was ten years agoMarry,ChildrenYear-old. We are in a knowledge exchange meeting, I was the representative of our company, he is the representative of their company, the first time we met was raging, and on him, then I feel nothing.

“I was 20-year-old, no boyfriend, the pursuit of men is not very sensitive to the third day after he met me on the phone, when is the work going on, we have a common cooperation project to Then we started a year of frequent contacts, and are mainly work to do. He would sometimes talk about my son and his wife felt he had a very happy, so I never thought we both what happens. until one day the two of us met for the project to Chongqing, in the back of the plane, he suddenly put down a napkin: ‘I love you!’ I was stupid again, at that time understood. hongkong-shopping
“Thus began. I found myself really gradually fell in love with him, can not do without a minute to start our colleagues do not know, was once to sing, he was drunk, and has been lying to me, we all they all knew, then I open in the company altogether in this matter. because ofFeelingHe would occasionally ask me how to do in the future? I made it very clear from the beginning that I did not intend to marry him, just a pure feeling it!

Unmarried mothers father a letter addressed to children

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Little Li is my former colleagues, unmarried mothers,ChildrenSmaller than my daughter four months. I was only a month ago that she was unmarried mothers, often after the talk about children and MSNFeelingThing. She once thought that a child can keep a man’s heart, however, that merciless he is gone, never looking back. Yesterday, she sent me this letter that she sent his last letter, after reading, I am sad for a long time, with her consent, I published this letter out, please read the despair of an unmarried mother … …Remember this is the first to write to you several times, but certainly is not much chance to write later.

Today I have chosen to useComputerTyping along, because I use a pen to write something only to people I most respect. Writing this letter is because there are two issues would like to talk, we still have that desire, may after a period of time, I even said that the energy and ideas are gone.

The first is to tell you why I left you so sad.

Last year in August, one day the two of us Yoshinoya meal from the car to go about your wife, you suddenly said: “In fact, you like her, are his wife!” Could you already forget to say the , but I recall that particular shock, that night I lay in bed being a mess, secretly vowed, in this life, whatever happens, I will not betray you. I can not any birthright, until we’re old, when an old lady an old man recalls the story of the year quite good. Of course I did not think you will never abandon me.

Since you are the wife said, I think you said she will not throw on the throw, because you know she does not you will not have everything, but I do not like I was there cause there are friends (I this girlfriend who is a well-known magazine editor assistant). But you should also know that I am on yourEmotionBetter than less dependent on her, even more than her, if she is nothing to follow you, follow you names and subdivision, and I’m holding my all to follow you, no name no subdivision along, I think, My courage than she, which is why I have not come out a long time an important reason.

Said today that these, and I are very calm, and just want some words on it, without any purpose.

The second question would like to say son, I think a woman a man is the greatest love and courage for his one child, I do not want to say how much I was under the determination, but you can seriously tell you, when the decision to He was born is because you said you would love me forever, you said you wanted this child in particular. I thought he would become the largest between you and me a bond, did not think you actually do not love him.

I always talk with your son, consciously or unconsciously, he changes every point, but looks like not too interested in you. He bought two you give clothes, which one I like to wear almost every day to his son, now have an inch short, but I still asked him to wear, it seems that it can make you a little young, he felt love.But as time goes on, I gradually felt that there was no need to demand your love.

I say it is not without reason, I remember the last time, in our contacts in that last message I said: “I want you to see him!” Your answer was: “Oh, I am home, talk tomorrow! “and then, tomorrow’s tomorrow’s tomorrow, you disappeared, this was really hurt me the most heart, and did not think like you do not care that he did not want to see him.

Separated two months, and the psychological process of the two months I was like this:

Initially all hate you, really hope you never see, and then have some contact, I innocently, “a change of heart”, that you still miss me at the time, we still haveFeeling, So went to met you.

Dinner that day feeling pretty good, a little feel you no longer mine. It is these representations I may have the wrong impression that you asked a silly question: “how will we get along?” Your answer is to start or continue. My heart is soft, I thought you or do you even start looking forward to our happy life.

Who knew a few days, you then go back on, and said, and I just want to make the most ordinary friend.

I know you do not want to and I get along from you this style – more than friends, more enemies than strong, andEmotionNo, I do not believe that an irresponsible man who also care about what emotion. But I hate youAmbiguousStand, love is love, not love is not love, not always in the middle of ambiguity to 忽悠 I also want good people to evade responsibility, a bit like with “hypocrisy” is the word describe you!

I also want to tell you I have had just friends with you the idea, because I think this may be you are right my last call, I try to Manzu it, but later I found myself can not stand, why I decided to no longer ignore you.

Oh, well, this is the last letter to you, every one is my heart.

Please carefully read twice and after the burn, thank you! vertu-call-phone

Perhaps, such is life, there is sunshine, there haze of clouds, this letter here and just want to tell you, a small Li for their choice to pay the price, although she did not say it, but I can feel her remorse and sorrow, love is a selfish raincoat, put on only to a person, not willing to give you the kind of birthright of love never Do not believe, because most of the last drink bitter water is a woman!

Dating men your strategy, the first step to reduce

Thursday, May 27th, 2010

Yes, this man does not want to live up to his family, of course, do not want to disappoint you, but if we must choose the second one, then obviously you mix in front of his wife + children become competitive. When he was young, perhaps passion is essential in life, but slowly, everyone involuntary seek stability and security.

User letter:

I passed a very tough battle for the love, time. We have not seen each other 2 months.

May 20, because the networkValentine’s DayI contact him to ascertain whether free, convenient, then I planned to see him. A result, he said he was busy with work, his next city, we had a colleague, lover, 2007, in ourFeelingDevelopment of the best of times, he was the assignment to the Beijing branch company, I pain for a very long time, every day looking forward to his return. In 2008 he also brought his wife to work Beijing branch, we have been linked. His wife to go, they do not get along harmoniously, he gave me a message that, with his wife separated for too long, no feelings, and he wanted me toMarry. While saying this, he was complaining that it is a temporary idea, and I still am moved to remark, pleased. I do not want to define my relationship with him for the physical attraction between men and women, I believe we are really trust each other, treat each other.

But this is passed, and now different. From the second half of 2008, as his family together, us the less obvious, sometimes a month without a phone, (contact work excluded) This continued to the present. Now he has to back, back to the company’s other branches in the city next door to me. He came back between us has changed, just the information I sent him up more, he has not returned, I already have a whole year had not received his message.

He is a shy person, so very few. But from his eyes, I could see his feelings for me. Reunion after a long absence, his eyes kind of joy from the heart, he is also a heavy feeling, so I knew he would not live up to his wife andChildrenThat the same token, he should not live up to my ah.

However, why does not he always returned my message? Why I propose to look at him, said he too busy? This is obviously an excuse to say that this was a refusal.

In fact, really, I did not go nuts, just see a face, a meal and chat, do not go to bed to bed is not the most important. I have been with him into middle age, with their respective spouses are students develop to the couple, husband and wife feeling pretty good, there is no intention to reshuffle the cards. However, after three years of separation, have loved ones, become the so cold? I am very worried.

 Help girls:Mae Sot

Suddenly see your letter reminds me of a close male friend and I said, every time he wanted his girlfriendBreak upAre the first non-active about each other and rarely appointments, two or three months so his girlfriend know what he means, they are likely to break off.

If you do not understand the hint, asking why you do not accompany her, I asked.

I then told her that a lot of pressure of work needs personal space, also needs to be considerate, apparently she can not, as we try to separate from one another for some time to calm down the man replied.

A bad man, this is my appraisal of him. However, he used is a good way, to his girlfriend to adapt to gradually accept the fact of breaking up, better pass play that not only how to break up, “disappeared” man.

If a man is no longer active about you, do not go to you about; not active telephone call, your phone and few words; not active messages, did not reply to your message … … then, accept the fact, he’s the euphemism broke up with you.

Yes, this man does not want to live up to his family, of course, do not want to disappoint you, but if we must choose the second one, then obviously you mix in front of his wife + children become competitive. When he was young, perhaps passion is essential in life, but slowly, everyone involuntary seek stability and security. So, he tired, or fear that a dangerous relationship. Between you, in his eyes over, but you stubbornly refuse to believe it.

In short you spend the years, I believe he loves you. Just, loving people, and sleep in her people, not the same, this is common; to love him, that listening to other people, it is common; think of the future, and planning in the future, but will never have, and this is common.
Therefore, human life, sometimes so gradually over.       golf-blogging

Love in a woman’s three major issues that reflect

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

Introduction:The feelings of two people not only maintain the life in the eating and drinking Lazard, has many aspects, such as what the two talked, what the common interest, which is a manifestation of deep-seated feelings. What to eat drink, and some daily necessities for the family and neighborhood, can not reflect the feelings of two people. Only people without feelings, will focus on these.Asked around some of the best girls, and asked them to consider themselves married very goodMarriageHappiness index to how. They have a good answer, without exception, very happy. And a friend I asked to see the remark was intended, and retorted RoadMarryAre two things at his own sense of happiness or not, others do not find fault with the right to make irresponsible remarks. Indeed, no one has the right to find fault, this is not my intention, I did not find fault with this interest, I just thought, did not know the true colors, only from within the mountain, their love for their marriage, the number of women friend’s place in them and are not a wise understanding of their happiness is only silly but still happy, stupid happy. Think of this happiness with the happiness of intelligent women, a difference between cloud that is more than mud.

Later, I made the following three aspects, so that they themselves consider:

  First, the practical concerns of non-material, had you

Have female friends often show off their husband to buy this or that, that her husband how to care about yourself, what brought myself what my husband how to care about yourself, how many calls a day greetings. Of course, these concerns are also reflected to some kind of love, but a manifestation of the love of a practical way, this is questionable.

Have talked about such a story to a friend, a rich wife bought a birthday, a luxurious diamond ring for his wife, wife unhappy. Regalia asked her why. She said that this afternoon I saw a show that physical work on a construction site of the poor young man, he spent a year in savings for his future wife bought a ring, that is love. And you buy this ring, counted, less than an hour of your income.

Therefore, the material above reflected the love is not so reliable. Excluding those of the material around these factors, see what he also care about you, it is worth pondering the first question.

 Second, building the mood of the material outside, you had

The mood is also such a reason. One female friend to show off, said her husband for his birthday, a mood to spend money bag under the restaurant, really moves me. Indeed, it is really poor Zhafu not a reflection of levels, like the United States so many rich, it regularly to civilians restaurants, flying economy class to sit still. You are such upstarts, what can be worthy of showing off. If this is a mood, then this is money for you to bring the mood, not your husband.

There is no real mood of a person is to see his thoughts to his delight, his level, rather than the kind of material basis.

  Third, in addition to the material life of the family and neighborhood, there is nothing to chat

Two peopleFeelingJust to maintain the life in the food and drink Lazard, has many aspects, such as what the two talked, what the common interest, these are the manifestation of deep-seated emotions. What to eat drink, and some daily necessities for the family and neighborhood, can not reflect the feelings of two people. Only people without feelings, will focus on these.

A female friend, her husband often took her to participate in some social circles, eat delicacies and drink wines, of course, that life represents a state of abundance, but in this life can feel the love there, I would like to We all heart like a mirror. In addition to these two things, there is no common interest, there is no common, interests, or even what topics can be said that you say what is the meaning of this love.

So, sometimes, from the woman that married a good friend, need some reflection, reflection reflection in the superior material, based on how much your love?    clothingblogger

Men love the four skills expose deception

Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

Introduction:Mature man is that in the face of present reality, he knows, as for the long-term thing, high-level things, he may not understand. In fact, sometimes only out of sight in this small group, can we see more long-term things. Ambition is to have ambition, ambitions would inevitably that ends justify means, is bound to be very utilitarian, advise the girls, the best man should be Linghu Chong as strong but weak fame.Girls are not easily “caught from behind,” is always wise to find a woman you really like, not like its hard to find a chase themselves. Remember Remember!   culture-blogger

 Skills for the economy, to be generous, even if you do not have money, but also make your money in the most appropriate place.

Content: Here it is necessary to mention the “Tian Ji’s horse” example, Tian Ji Why can win because he has a reasonable allocation of resources, used in the most appropriate place. In fact, both girls, please send gifts or eating girls should learn that the deployment of resources. For example, you do not have enough money to buy her a high-gradeMobile, Then bought her with a low-end mobile phone, might as well give her every high-end MP3 and the like, if you do not have money to buy her a luxurious diamond ring, you can buy a high-grade crystal pendant. There have been so close a friend, family general. Parents want to prepare for a wedding in suburban housing, the result, part of the money he bought a BMW, and then the rest of the money intoLoveThe final out on a home a house of rich girl several dowry.

Beware: this case can not let the girls to reflect on the surface of things, could not be trusted? Surface of the rich is not really rich? His generous spending money for you, the intention? The moment is not that generous expression of love? It may do not agree, in fact, “fooled” a lot of girls really.

  Second, psychological techniques, to humor, to be mature, be motivated, speak little, but every word brilliant.

Content: conversation humor can attract a MM, so she felt very happy with you. The serious place on the serious, when the ridicule of ridicule. FemaleChildrenLike a little cynical of men, so do not seem particularly concerned about what all, that is too rigid. Since most of nature MM petite weak, so be sure to show the same maturity point, failing to calm, unhurried man on the MM has a fatal attraction. Man’s greatest charm is that a successful career, let alone young people to work not long “contribution has” This time you have to give MM think you are a motivated person. Other can be nonsense, but this issue can not be vague, you have to tell MM, your confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you already have long-term plan, short your future is not a dream.

Beware: In fact, the humor of the man is not necessarily a content, mature men are not necessarily intelligent, motivated the fact that ambitious, and not necessarily reliable. Recommendations to the girls: a man content with content are generally restrained, are unintentionally humorous without preparation, but every day the men must be very frivolous joke is very shallow, and their humor are carefully prepared of. Mature man is that in the face of present reality, he knows, as for the long-term thing, high-level things, he may not understand. In fact, sometimes only out of sight in this small group, can we see more long-term things. Ambition is to have ambition, ambitions would inevitably that ends justify means, is bound to be very utilitarian, advise the girls, the best man should Linghu Chong as strong but weak fame and fortune, only shallow girls will tend to like Murong Fu is very utilitarian as a very real man.

“Returnees” Men do not worth investing in love

Monday, May 24th, 2010

I am a Taiwanese, 46 years old, divorced with two children to open their own company in China. My boyfriend of 33 years old, returnees, unmarried, at present no income.

WeFeelingYes, not even argue, in addition to the problem is sometimes a little quarrel because of language comprehension. But all, and then forgot. Recently the more I think it was to continue this feeling of confusion.

He hoped that we first haveChildrenThen registerMarry. I do not want children, but also worried about how to treat our worldly perspective. But it has delayed the marriage, and I fear that delays in hisMarriage(He was an only child, at home, he was soon married to birth of a baby)

How can I do?

  Help girls:Mae Sot

My life has a number of “returnees” coming and going, both men and women, some of them very good friends or relations. But I have been to most of the “returnees” quality skeptical.

In addition to those multinational assignment to China’s senior management or technical personnel, most of the “returnees” to return because what is it?

Feel better than abroad in China? For this reason lame, since some of China’s moon is more round, why would Xiaojiannaodai going out?

Homesickness? If for this reason a Qilaobashi of “returnees” who I believe, if a 23-year-old youth is no time to miss, I know many busy to even home in Tianjin, who work in Beijing, it may not each will be remembered on a family trip to see Mom and Dad’s friends.

The career opportunities for good? Then we study how different Chinese and foreign, in foreign countries can not start, only to come back? Is because the foreign business does not rely on the networks of foreign or foreign rubbish, old equipment back home get more wealth?

Domestic employment prospects good? It is more sad. Prove that the “returnees” are ignorant and incompetent in foreign countries, the unemployed can not find decent work of social idlers, only holding back third-rate university diploma fraud living.

Although the terrible words of the points, but the truth is that years are not broken. I know a lot of friends from previous years, the reason why students go out into “returnees” simply because the other side having failed to make the sea had to “return.” Otherwise how could willing to spend so much human material and financial resources, it is so dingy back, get nothing.

Therefore, high-quality men and women most of the returnees are not worth the investment, they are only suitable for those who live only a low-level requirements of women. I suggest you seriously consider your boyfriend is not a worthy life partner entrusted a 30-year-old returnees, no income, but also children, marriage, makes his motives are really quite questionable. What if he is not only to withstand the pressure of material into premature marriage, men, then live with him, than youSingleWhere can good?motherhood

Another point I do not understand is why the marriage after the husband and children? This is not consistent with China’s national conditions. He intends to ask the parents have ripened to accept your love, or have other plan? In any case, marriage must be based on pure love as a starting point, there is no exchange, so as to rule out the possible hidden dangers of marriage. To love the child as a bargaining chip, not the son you never had the mother with the plot, but once failed to bear this result is not a good woman.

Off our wedding night her mother quilt

Saturday, May 22nd, 2010

I now think that what happened on the wedding night, like a nightmare. I never thought would come across such a metamorphosis mother, really makes it hard to accept, I want toDivorceA … …

My mother is really my husband all sorts of love, the feeling be called “son is the Days.” In fact,MarryBefore I think she has done some things a little bit after, such as we eat all the food on the table, her first best dishes with chopsticks to clip to my husband, the only standard I Dongkuaizi, otherwise, she unhappy.

I first went to her home did not know the rules, the first clip of a chicken to eat. Results eat that meal, she would have been muttering: “× × I do like to eat chicken again, this time no eat.

“Later I found that every kind of food she first gave me the best husband, the chicken is chicken, crab to be the greatest, even soup, we must first give my husband a bowl containing pork … …

Although my heart is not happy, but it’s no problem. As more not to mention the shopping. Before marriage, we want to buy some clothes, her mother’s rules of non-native, said they are repairing the man to the woman, my husband took a 5,000 yuan for her, so she bought us. Results clothes to buy back a look, only one for me, but still kind of a look that is bought from a stall bargains. But my husband’s new clothes, just have two sets of suits, there are a lot of shirts, ties like.

After seeing my husband very happy, said: “Mom how do you give LL to buy only one Yeah, how the new body should also have a few for you?” The results I She said: “There is one on almost the same, the money should be spent on men’s shoulders, does not matter what she wears. “sort of thing a lot, anyway it bluntly, is that she can not see me better than her son, delicious good wear nice are her son, and I can only Laodian left her son’s.

The fact is I do not care about, after all, and the real mother is not the same mother, and her bad attitude to me. She gave me a good husband, I also trouble in it, so it does not mind.

European Championship second-round leader Donald Liang

Saturday, May 22nd, 2010
欧洲锦标赛次轮唐纳德领先梁文冲晋级保尔特出局
Paul Stewart

Beijing time on May 22 message, the world number 18 in England Golf star Luke – Donald (Luke Donald) temperature Wentworth golf course in order to obtain the advantages of a European Tour’s flagship event-BMW European Championship 36 hole lead. World ranking 77 Chinese star Liang Wen-chong shot a 72 (+1), tied for 30th place. No. 6 world ranking, Ian – Ian Poulter was eliminated.

BMW European Championship in the second round, Donald shot a 68 for a second day (-3) to 136 (-6) total score among the top performance position. England’s young players leading the first round of Danny – Willet (Danny Willett, 72 poles), Rose – Fischer (Ross Fisher, 70 poles) and the South African golfer James – Kingston (James Kingston, 69 poles) are 137 (-5) of the total score tied 2. Defending champion Paul Casey – and three-time major champion Harrington were 68 and 67 (-4) to 138 (-4) of the total score ranked tied for 5th.

32-year-old two-time European Tour winner Donald won the four round total of birds, only 12-hole swallowed a personal two-day game since the first bogey once again shot a 68 to one of advantage among the lead. After the match, Donald believes that the strategy course race results will play a very important role. “In this course you must be planned on how they should play. Now, in the 17-hole greens very difficult because the ball down a very narrow point of the range of choices. On the 18th hole as a water hazard guarding the green in front, if you choose a direct attack on the second green bar, then will be very difficult. “The part in two Ryder Cup European Tour win in England have to be traced back to 2004.

And the performance of the first round a bit contrary, Liang, in the first 9-hole round of competition into the struggle, in the 1,6,8 hole and took bogey, respectively, only in the four-hole birdie on the 7th . After the transition, his two four-hole bogey 11,12 hole Liantun once faced being left behind, reminiscent of his 2007 European Championship regret scene. At that time, he suffered in the second round because of the “Waterloo” 77 and ultimately out a difference gnawing regret. However, the former Asian Tour number one player in the performance of calm under pressure, respectively, in 15,17,18 birdie hole, eventually 72 (+1) end of the competition, 142 (Par) The total score is tied 30, a smooth final cut.

In other eye-catching big stars, the surgeon transformation of South Africa’s Ernie Els golf course West is a 70 (-1) to 139 (-3) is tied for a total score of 9. The world number nine in the Northern Ireland teenager Rory – McIlroy to 69 (-2) through impact, achieving 143 (+1) of the total score, tied for 40th. England, the world’s No. 3 star Lee – Westwood and Sweden’s Henrik Stenson shot 74, respectively (+3) and 71 (Par), are 144 (+2) and tied for 54th highest total score bit.

BMW European Championship after two rounds, the cut line for the final qualification 145 (+3), a total of 78 players shortlisted smooth the final weekend. No. 6 world ranking handsome Ian Poulter of England shot a 69 round though, but because there was 78 the first round (+7), which made Paul Stewart is finally unable to turn the tide, he only 147 (+5) total score tied 91 to miss the final two strokes. Other early goodbye to the game include the German star Martin – Kemer (76-70), Chinese Taipei star Lin Wentang (69-78), Spain “cannon” player Alvaro – Queiroz (72-77), Omega Mission Hills World Cup last year’s winner of the Italian player Ai Duoao more – Molinali (72-77).

Dear: Do not let men see that you hate to marry

Friday, May 21st, 2010

I told him through friendsBlind dateKnowledge. He’s tall and 1 meter 85, the 35-year-old pregnant mature man, looks normal, the airlines do in a manager, my friend said that he is a very promising man, asked me to take advantage of. My height is 165, looks pretty beautiful.

The weekend that week (fourth meeting), and he asked me to the airport to play, to bring my brothers with their dinner, they are all brothers head the elite. After dinner, on the way home he asked me, like with him and his friends? I say that like it, he asked me if I would be boring, I said a little bit. I put my mental, then told him: “Your circle of friends are such a status, including their wives are also very good, but I am nothing, you will not find face?” He answered said that he liked me, I treat people like graceful, courteous on the people, like me beautiful, I heard him say this, people carried away the.

I know he definitely likes me. I do not know how that night, and said that I do not exclude the two separated, not every day comes to meet, if not every day will see fresh, bored, see 2 days a week on it (actually I said these words, He wanted to let violent pursuit of me, sometimes a woman is hypocritical to speak of); said not very willing to work with her mother to live with, but if you study with yourMarryThat certainly keep up with her mother to live. (Later she learned that his father had died, he and his motherFeelingGood). Also said that, my friends circleMarriageNot happy, I have some fear, a little Fear of Marriage (that which I wanted he told me: “Do not worry I will Hello lifetime”). I did not think, I said these words, he actually seriously.

The day after, he did not take the initiative to send information. I see the situation right, I take the initiative to contact him, he always says busy, no time. Send a message to him, he always sent the two words. Later he told me that he wanted for a long time, that our goal is inconsistent, with inappropriate. I am about to meet him after the movies, even his intimate act, he felt rejected me, saying I do not want to make mistakes delay. I even go to the airport to send him soup, with some chat after he finally arrived, his face is very complex and asked me why I do not agree to the airport after him? And then insisted on an immediate and sent me home. Friends and we were introduced after that he talked also said not to be raised between us.

I think I was misunderstood, and misunderstood, though some ideas are my true thoughts, but this can change. I said those words, I wanted to let him pursue me even more violent. Why did he not, after in-depth understanding of my decision? I am very unwilling, very painful! I also want him, he ignored me from the first day is a day I did not want him, like a person really very painful!

Please help me! Want from you. Thank you!>>Letter paper

 Help girls:Mae Sot

Can see that you are a very smart woman, so you all can think of no way to save the man, it really can not avert.

Under normal circumstances, you should be aLoveMaster, beautiful, and not pretty women have no brain, this time you lose in the absence of assessment of opponents.

First, the 35-year-old still not married men, most are not the kind of easily carried away by the passionate young love, not your reluctantly let him boldly straight before. They know they need what kind of wife, but also understand their love of the immediate goal is to find a wife that they need. So put on this type of blind men, the princess is useless gesture, or you have enough aspects of life out of a virtuous wife, or your content enough to let him in your spiritual identity, or he is very difficult to move thought to marry you the door.

Second, the success of a business man is no shortage of women on his waging. Low profile on this man is definitely a mistake, he can smell very keen to marry you hate the atmosphere. Most successful men are proud, once he realized this aEmotionPrevailed in his game, he will soon feel tired, lose the satisfaction of conquest. Moreover, unless the want his lover, do not take the initiative to lure men. This means even if successful, his views of the pressure and forced to marry you, so your bones will be very much contempt for the behavior of light. Such marriages are not respected, are you sure you want to?

Finally, a focus on the work of men, often regarded work and private life are clearly divided. He can introduce you to his colleagues, does not mean you have the right to work at the time he broke into his work affected his progress in the field or working mood. Whether you find that the more reasonable since the interface, but you act like he would resent. He will think you are a threat to explode at any time, affect his normal life, will find you making trouble, do not know how should advance and retreat. The trouble, he was a good impression on the degree you are expected to drop below zero.

In fact, you should reflect on, now you do not like happy, out of love he has lost his or failed to want to hold him? I think every young woman older unmarried Kaopu know is that you cooked the duck flew feel too disappointed, including me. Because you have this fat ducks have as much sustenance as a house these days to find the cause of another car and a man willing to treat you is not easy, so even if he was older, look ordinary, lower abdomen convex, you or to ignore their own disappointment. But even if you are so aggrieved, even concluded thatBreak upFor the one is not you, as the pride of beauty were completely destroyed.

Baby, you do not call thisLovelorn, You just disappointed. You just like to win, you are not used to lose. I’m that way, which women do not like this. So even lose, we have to lose gracefully. Deeply troubled, can only become more and more humble in each other’s eyes, so why bother, pride, get up.