I fell in love with her fiance for six yearsVery long engagement, and nowSome fear that more married. I24, Long more beautiful, tall1.73。18Years old he started going to college to knowHe is not starting from the first semesterStop chasing me, he was tiredThe promise not to try to developTo my surprise, I actuallyReally fell in love with him.
His long is the sun is high1.89, A family environment with my familyAn underground heaven. My home threeOn behalf of the business, there still is not wealthyIs relatively rich. StartI doubted his purpose, mayHe did not rely on what my family had,Their own ability and character toI recognized his brother, the UniversityGraduation can be earned to buy a houseDown payment of money. I alsoWell, they do not violate principlesHe almost always along the ISophomore year, when we cohabitation, And live under one roof2He told me more than a year are the rules,Pro graduation, I think we canRelieved, completely trust their ownPaid him, then I feelFeel that they are so happy withSchool, first love, the first man, Which a few are in its ownLove people.
I graduated Houge Ge abroadStudy abroad, he was a great additionTrade company hired, before I goCried for several days, so he went to Costa RicaBrother was working his last noNonetheless agreed, I thenReassuring to go. But firstSemester, holiday home, a day to seeHe does not face up to early in the morningOf the rush to go out, and it will stealTo go with a steal, even with hisHe met the former girlfriend, whenWhen I do not fight a gas, redUp is the meal swearword, heI cling to the next I was calmTo, and afterwards the woman I knowThe current boyfriend was hisAbandoned, he comforted her,Live for five years, her boyfriend’s loyaltyThick, I still have confidence, but alsoNo get to the bottom, then the two of themSeems to have no further contact.
Back again to his brother with peopleGrab a woman, even money to hit, A mouth to find my boyfriend to fiveWan, I was just something fromGermany came back, fifty thousand is a small, Han can not I use nowSaid, but the woman in order to recover the value ofIt? Even after I told himEat play a few years with not aSet to 50,000! I know that after the pullHis brother went to theoretical,His brother told me glib,I said some harsh words,Boyfriend begged me not to mention, my spleenGas vexation straight, which stopped the nextAh! Finally, I hit her boyfriendSlap!
I cried all the way back from BeijingYueyang, so big the first timeBeaten, turned out to be their ownBeloved of men to fight, do not mention itKinds of flavors. But finally, IOr forgive him.
Now think about him a littlePersonality clashes, just like fire and waterLike, he is very kind of temperGentle person, we almost quarrelNot up, but also peace and quiet has been noThings with him dull, self-Of course, comfortable. I am also from the unlimitedLonging for romance, with his accustomedWith calm day. CanThis2After I began to shake things, And other good and who areWell, I know him to five years in addition toNo one can make him angry,Is good too far, he even abandonedThe ex-girlfriend he can be forgivenFriends also went to comfort her. CanHe has not thought about, ah, IIs the jealous woman would envy, Good to anyone I sometimes do notCool, and he was so excellentShow, like his girl fromNot less than, although his last electionChoose me, when I was assuredWhen he hit me a slapShaken, the kind of tremendous trustSense of security was gone.Today, he could play for his brotherI slap in the future if IHow he would offend his parentsFor me?
Now to end the study,Our marriage is preparing her boyfriendCeremony, I was afraid, I am nowFace the same good, strong family environmentHe can live lock situation, he willTo prance when the dragon, who IOld yellow beads as he STORMY alsoIt? With the TV that he will notAs well developed cast some Fuxin HanI abandoned this Zaokangzhiqi?
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Su-qin Reply:
While acknowledging the loyal boyfriend carefullyThick, strong, do not rely on youFamily wealth alone his personalAbility, but also at a young ageMake life first bucket of gold.
The other hand, suspect: “INow face the same good home ringYou can lock a strong environment to live, heDragon when he will prance,I have become old, he STORMYAlso all? ”
I can only say that you left thisRight contradiction, it is the rich girlOf the “true feelings” of unsafeSense. Money can change a lotThings, including “True Love”Trust.
This state, that indeedThat when you should not force him toYour brother’s company to work.If he had to go outside the houseTrade companies, according to their ability toMade some achievements, you willFor him more confidence, he will alsoThe love you two moreEmboldened.
Now he’s in your home business on theClasses, regardless of how good doAlways be some gas psychologicalShort. If all of the payCan exchange for your tolerance and understanding, That would not constitute a problem, such asIf any of you still the same as beforeSex, then I can only say – the oldReal person loses his temper, is moreOut of control. I hope thatDay do not come.
In fact, between the lines, have revealedA strong desire to control you.A girl, control freak backLater, she must have unsafeSense. He is not afraid to love youYour people, your family money.This is a decision, feeling theEven appear a little bit of trouble,You will be moving in the worst of thisThink about psychological expectations.
This ambivalence and go throughReveal a message: how youCapricious, there is more love him.
Your feelings out of fear of risk, becauseYou love him too.
Love the way the current viewCertainly not the most healthy,More than most insurance.
Remind you of one thing: his familyCertain behavior, you can haveQuestioned, but as a ZhunerWife, should not take the initiative to runTalk to each other representations. His brotherBrother should not be, even for his parentsShould not be.
This boy, you should believeHe has the ability to deal with all thisChores. After all, familyDepartment of disputes will still hurt, This “doing bad” andPeople the opportunity, you should not sillyFor themselves. Sometimes a lot of”Bad wife” is not reallyCareful not to good, only to lose in the PacificLove to worry about, too much love affairs. HusbandFamily matters, it is best to stayTo her husband to solve, this is the firstA principle.
If you ask: “He will notLike with the TV that Fuxin HanDeveloped to abandon my ZaokangWife? ”
I can only say: not allAfter all the poor boys’ ApprenticeWill abandon Zaokang, but not theThere are wealthy men with rich girlLife together. All this worldFeelings of success or failure rests in theTheir own hands, your efforts, Will change everything, including good, And also bad

Extramarital affairs are not destined to last long, because the affair is not simply inherent. People who have extramarital affairs, escape three reasons:EmotionNeeds, sexual desire, interests seek. Of course, this is the intrinsic motivation of the three, the three motives, may also be mixed with each other, the surface is likely to show emotional need, but the real motivation is different from the other. Because of extramarital affairs, often playing the guise of a love, so out of form, often showingLoverBetween the emotional purity requirements of the newMarriageTo seek or pay for other requirements.

The most typical situation is one to seek long-term relationship between two people, or even marriage, but the other is just limited to pay, or just want to take sex without emotion. Therefore, extra-marital affairs is difficult to achieve the same objectives, requiring the same. “Unreal true, true false, there is not no place there also.” This is the number of extramarital affairs unspeakable state. Moreover, extra-marital affairs, and often are caught in the dark and to survive, beyond the pleasure of doomed in the reckless, often a sense of suffocation. Tired, tired to suffocate, doomed affair very long. That thePursueStimulus-based affair, if not quickly hygiene conditions, it is often boring. Crash is only a matter of time.

Because of extramarital affairs are often caught in the dark and to survive, so that the relationship between extramarital lover, becomes strange inexplicable. For example, both have their own families, friends and family, which are in the open. But the secret lover, doomed activities should be subject to the various relationships that the daylight. For example, extra-marital lover, want to date you have to think of ways to create time and space or gap on the dark side, there will be a steal in nature. In fact, this relationship between light and shade, but also the psychological impact between lovers, the most common external appearance is not something you say so, but take implicitly. Of course, this suggests that sometimes an emotional expression, and sometimes the temptation is also a free way to retreat, even with a deceptive or misleading. However, the situation at the time, there are some things it seems, is full ofRomanticPoetic, until the time these words were removing the moisture, and finally found a pile of garbage lie. Do not believe a

1.LoverWe should talk about inter-Emotion, What the money a lot of money!

There is a particularly interesting phenomenon, a law was failing to tell you, this is not about the money problem, and that likelihood, this is a question of money. Replicability, and speak with your loverEmotional problemsRather than a question of money. Tend not to say that they have to pay more for your feelings, in front of you, do not mean money to pay. Each other’s intentions, most likely let you talk to her feelings, spend time on her, depending on the money as dirt. Really care about the kind of emotion, people do not care about money, will not use such words to enlighten you, but he had made less, or do not say. Deceive a man infatuated with a woman, men tend to love first, a woman will be generous in terms of money, even at the cost to corruption, to pay this debt situation. Certainly, there will be no good either. Let live: what money did a lot of money, but real life is so good the last thing!

2. Did not think you are too selfish, I really disappointed!

Selfish people blame each other, often have their own selfish satisfied.Lover, The selfish and anti-selfish cross-examination, are often selfish in for worship. The real emotions between lovers, tend to pay as happy, more like each other, this situation,HappinessOfMarriageIn common. The affair between lovers, it is difficult to achieve. Because extra-marital affairs often pay a psychological disorder, does not rely on Valentine’s when the real life, so pay more on the trade-off. CombinedEmotionIs not pure, let pay more limited, if not to please each other, or give in accordance with the first, you must first principle is not much lover in an affair, the selfless dedication. Limited to pay, often the key to a conflict between the lovers. Because sometimes the lover in order to benefit from, increased pay and get this trade-off mentality. Pros and cons of such benefits and whether emotions are often linked, which makes the situation in extra-marital affairs, as fishing bait, so that extra-marital affairs become a shameful act.

3. What I gave you, enough?

ExtramaritalLoverBetween the fit of anger, is often behavior. Issues such as jealous, if not love each other, when the other close to the other sex, showed also often jealous. Why? First, because the relationship between extramarital lover, is itself aDerailment, Then derailed on the extremely sensitive. Second, because the possessive, so feel privileged to be occupied, so angry. In extra-marital affairs, it is not love, do not really want to like each otherMarryParty to meet other, often do not directly express that I love you, or commitment, and people getting married, on the one hand afraid of this commitment andConfessionSo that they are not a retreat, say the truth, afraid of conflict intensified immediately, to bring their own adverse consequences. So, often take the middle road, withAmbiguousWords or substitute words, and to generate psychological misunderstanding, and seek psychological balance. Through the exchange, and many consultants, I found that many people have taken the bait, they regard the finalBreak upAttributed to some objective reasons. In fact, this is Valentine’s sly lead to results at the critical moment, does not fall drifted, not intensify contradictions, and then look for opportunities, so you have nothing to say, would rather retire.

4. I really want to tell you to fly far away to a deserted place to enjoyRomantic!In the initial stage, extra-marital affairs, this sentence is easy to capture each other’s heart.LoverTo the relationship between a certain extent, that statement, so between lovers often feelWarmthAnd romance. But this sentence, the hidden meaning of a particular hint. That is ourEmotionIn fact there is no way out, like a long time or really want to come together, it is just too romantic idea, is unrealistic. Because the lover, the cracks in the dark and survive in the bright world, they do not have almost deprived, afraid of the cruel reality, only this is too romantic longing and sentiment. If a rational person, it will not be the temptation of extramarital affairs, only those restless, irrational people, will be caught in extramarital affairs, the last covered with wounds to return to normal life in the past, or stay in pain, the or destruction of reality never come back.